• No means no.  Seek enthusiastic consent.
  • Don’t touch other people uninvited, even if it looks like other people are doing it.
  • When in doubt, ask a board member or Dungeon Facilitator.
  • Do not interfere, verbally or physically, with other people’s scenes or aftercare. Do not ask if you can join in. If the top asks you to move out of the way during a scene, move.
  • Respect the privacy of others. Do not mention anyone at the party to those not at the party without that person’s express permission to name him. These parties are private; what happens there, stays there.
  • Keep your criticisms of other people’s play, attire or appearances to yourself.
  • If you see something you think is unsafe, inform a Dungeon Facilitator or MVK board member, instead of taking action yourself.
  • Do not come on to people aggressively or cluelessly.
  • Don’t touch other people’s toys without the owner’s permission.
  • Watching and curiosity are not the same things as gawking or judging.
  • Regardless of titles, (e.g. “slave, Master, Mistress, etc.”), you do not owe deference to anyone unless you’ve consented to it as part of your relationship.
  • Volunteers are always welcome and a good way to meet people!